I actually was a virgin until I found the community. I lost my virginity to this girl I met on AOL after reading David Deangelo's book. From there I had a two year period of unintended celibacy during which I made the decision that I was going to do whatever it took to get good with women. I started out by going to the mall every day and doing 7 approaches. I was underage back then so that was my routine for about a year and a half. It took about 6 months for me to get any results whatsoever and then when I was getting results they were very sporadic. So i eventually took a Mystery Method bootcamp back in 2004. From there I got structure and my game exploded. Before that bootcamp I had slept with 8 girls in my life. In the month after the bootcamp I slept with 8 new girls. From there I interned for the company and then ultimately became the lead instructor for Mystery Method from 2005-2008.

My life with women is amazing. I don't like having a girlfriend so I get to meet a ton of girls and have a constant stream of new girls in my life around the world.

Game to me comes down to three things. Inner psychology, skillset and lifestyle. Game shouldn't be something you do, it should be something you are. I think the ultimate goal for everyone is to live their life in a way that they can't help but be directly in the path of beautiful women.

Everyone is going to have different roads to success with women. For the most part though, it takes between 9 months and 3 years to get really good, and that's with a decent amount of training. If you don't ever see anyone good, it could take forever.

One of the first things I do is fix fashion and hair problems right away. It's the one of the easiest things to fix that contributes to attraction, is the way you dress. There's no excuse for dressing badly. You don't even need a lot of money to do it. The first thing we do on my bootcamps is a fashion and hair makeover.

After that we take guys through the ideas of how a woman thinks and what causes attraction. It's important to understand what the rules of the game are before trying to play it.We also talk a lot about the structure of courtship and attraction. We have a different model of attraction, which as far as I know is the community's first non linear model. We also emphasis the ideas of qualification as a mechanism that allows you to move between the phases of attraction, comfort and seduction.

The next thing I think really helps is to get a bunch of default things to say so that you can free your precious brain up to the really important things like logistics, touching, group dynamics, etc... Myself and El Topo are famous for our routine stacks and we make sure that every students gets an attraction stack made up of their own personalized material.

Finally we like to personalize to the student's unique advantages and disadvantages. Some guys are tall and good looking, others are funny, others can dance. At Sinn's Of Attraction we believe that every guy has ablueprint of success for himself not for anyone else. But I don't believe in shoving round pegs into square holes. If a guy is a computer programmer, it's a BAD idea for him to pretend to be a rock star or dress like it. Instead he needs to take who he actually is and reshape it in a more attractive manner. That's where we come in. We figure out how YOU can be your most attractive self and we give you advice on how to bring that out through fashion, routines, humor, and lifestyle ideas.

The biggest ones are leaning in, not being loud enough and not talking enough. Guys in the community have a huge problem with the idea of value and trying to be high value. The overarching DHV is fun. If a girl is not having fun you can be a pre-selected, leader of men who protects his loved ones and still not get the girl. And fun starts with you. There is an inherent hypocrisy in pursuing an outcome while at the same time trying to have fun. So I like the idea of self amusement. This means that you are doing things while meeting women because you enjoy them not to get a reaction.

I think the biggest factor in getting inconsistent results versus great results is a tolerance to social pressure. The more " balls" a guy has the better he will be able to approach hotties, use social pressure to deal with guys and obstacles, and escalate sexually. In fact I would much rather teach a guy who has been out approaching consistently without theory than a guy who knows all the theory but hasn't done that many approaches. Most guys focus way too much on reading and gathering knowledge instead of getting out there and messing up.

Another thing is actively using setting frames. Girls frames are very malleable. This means that if you treat a girl like it's normal to go on 3 dates and wait a month to have sex, she'll take that frame as well. However if you act like it's normal to take her home that night they will fall into that frame as well. I think a lot of it comes down to the idea of comfort being taught as babysitting as opposed to a place where we can actively do things to arouse her and get her thinking, and wanting sex.

I'm all about fixing the fundamentals, and then personalizing to the student. I hate the fantasy camp mentality that a lot of workshops can become, so my company is all about pre and after care. I don't want to teach 200 guys a year, I want to work very closely with 20-30 guys and watch them actually make huge progress.

Sure, my same night lays stuff all came from hanging out with Captain Jack and El Topo. I even moved to Dallas to go out with these guys more often. The same night lay is all about creating attraction and then systematically using a series of frames to allow her to unleash her sexual nature. The other thing that's super important is logistics. You'd be amazed how many guys go out without knowing where they are going to pull to, what their excuse for pulling is, or even to find out what the group is doing later. These things separate the guy who goes home alone from the guy who brings girls home. Another thing that helps a lot is being willing to show sexual interest in the girl. Not being afraid to hit on the girl and demonstrate sexual interest in her AFTER she has shown she's attracted is attractive.

 

Girls want to be wanted by guys they are attracted to. This goes against a lot of theory but works extremely well when done correctly. That's my idea of sexcalation. Sexcalation is merely turning the conversation sexual while using releases when it gets too intense. A lot of guys make the mistake of being overtly sexual and coming off horny or creepy. Both of which are the kiss of death for SNLs. I would say the biggest problems guys have is that they turn sexually needy at the first sign of a sexual thought. Girls' lives are a drive through window of cock. The fattest ugliest girl in the world can get laid whenever she wants. SO if you show that you think sex is a big deal or something that you leap on instantly you prove you're outside of the girls world. It's weird. Trust me trying to explain getting sex being hard to girls is like trying to explain anything computer related to me :) So it's key to show the girl you are attracted to her sexually as a man as opposed to as a social "cool" guy.

Sure it was when CaptainJack and I tried to bang both girls in a two set. We called the acrobatic monkey cause we'd been watching Ocean's 13 a lot and wanted stupid nicknames for our plots.

(Here's the original LR)

The acrobatic monkey or the failed switch

So after fighting with SCW over me flaking on her. CJ and I hit a couple of different places and no goes I even had waited to # close this bar tender I’ve talked to a few times, except she's not there... Drats.

 

Finally we hit X bar. I open what I think is a 2 girl 1 guy set. The girls are South American and an 8 and 7 if you're into that kind of thing. The girls respond and the dude shuts the fuck up. It's instantly on. I run best friends test, I do a group hug, and run strawberry fields. She tells me she's in " Her sexual prime" I tell her I need trust and comfort first.

 

Cj runs a dastardly ploy that sends me to the dance floor to have seizures to music. I do an almost kiss.

 

I decide to do a take away to see if there's a way to trade up. My initial target was an 8 the obstacle a 7. We look around and I run a quick set while CJ hits the bathroom. All huge cock game. Al the time. No conversation except about how big my dick is. The fattie in the set said she was attracted to my confidence I responded that it's easy to be confident when you have a HUGE cock.

 

Meanwhile I am destroying Savoy @ virtual drinking I hit 19 drunks at about 1 AM.

 

So I seed the pull to an after party. She asks who will be at the after party. I respond, you, CJ, your friend and me. Meanwhile CJ has a girl he # closed Wednesday all over his shit. She's asking him to leave with her and shit. But he's also gaming my obstacle. His girls bounce and we get them to drive us home under the pre-text of me being drunk (which I am) but the exact way I planned it with CJ in the car on the ride there.

 

We get back to my place and me and my target fuck including her begging me to fuck her ass. In the other room on the couch of sex CJ closes my obstacle.

 

We decide to go eat so I can sober up and we can get my car. I regret to inform you guys that there is no cure to 19 drinks, in fact I'm kind of buzzed writing this a couple hours later. While at the diner CJ and I talk about switching. Meaning we try to fuck each other's targets.

 

We get into the garage of my place and decide to go for it. My new target needs to go up to get her cell phone anyway. We go up and I start trying to kiss her. I tell her to sit next to me and we start cuddling. I think fuck foreplay and whip my shit out and start to whack it on her. She tells me I can't stay hard and I move her hand over. I tell her I' m a wet kind of guy and she licks her hand and starts to manually stimulate me.

 

CJ and his girl call as I've got my and down her pants. It seems CJ had made out with and titty sucked my target on the way up. We fucked the logistics up by prolly 10 minutes, but we will now be searching for the 100 percent perfect 2 set where both PUAS lay both girls.

You can be expecting a high level of both individual and group live instruction. You can also expect quite a few products. The first one will be the LR book. This book will have breakdowns and commentary on some of the lay reports of the best guys in the community. Guys like myself, Captain Jack, El Topo, Brad P, AFC Adam Lyons, In10se, Savoy and more. I always found that I learned the most from reading Lay reports and now you'll get to read some of the best guys in the world's LRs with commentary. We also have our new mentorship phone coaching programs and we'll be releasing some DVDs and CDs soon.

My blog is at Sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com and my website is Sinnsofattraction.com. I also answer all my emails and guys can send me questions at Sinnstravel@gmail.com