Making progressive improvements to your life.
This seduction community is more or less about improving the self and making changes in your life that will, well… make you a better person.
Lately I have noticed a huge difference in leaders and followers of this attraction community. I see a lot of guys who read a couple ebooks, watch a few DVDs and then "talk" about GAME while neglecting to incorporate it into their lives. On the other hand I see guys who study it religiously, try to apply it to their game and still fail due to incongruence or a “few” failed attempts with one specific discipline. And then of course there are those who constructively work on themselves on a realistic timeline and see slow yet progressive improvements in their game and life.
I have been fortunate enough to be in the latter group who has improved over a longer time in slower increments. In thinking about the external factors that have pushed me in the right direction over the years, I keep coming back to the concept of social support. Taking on this game by yourself is tough. Your good friends like you the way you are and really don’t want you to change. When they hear you talking about attractology or game, they might be put off by the fact it requires deep level changes in your life. When you start to become an attractive pick up artist and your behaviors become more attractive, your friends might despise the "new" you.
You need the right encouragement. This encouragement is going to come from people who support your decision to become a better, more attractive person. The people I am talking about are the people in this community. Your fellow wings and PUAs. Not only will they support you, they will push you to get better through constructively critique and encouragement. Of course, you must choose your wings and PUA mentors with care. By making the decision to commit yourself to this discipline, it is necessary to find others in the same boat as well as those better than you (game wise).
Find a good teacher, natural or unnatural who is better than you and is willing to give you some pointers. And meet people in this game who are going to support your decision to become an attractive male. Also , if you know people who could benefit from learning the art of seduction and attraction, get them involved and tell them about it. Nothing is better than having the right support. Trust me. Surrounding yourself with other Pick up Artists will accelerate your game by an exponential amount.
If you know a friend who could benefit from learning the Art of Seduction and Attraction, we encourage you to share the information we have here on Attractology with them. As the people you associate yourself with grow, your learning curve will be accelerated.
- Dthomas