Social & Dating Coaching | Attractology » body language http://www.attractology.com 'The subject you didn't learn in school' Mon, 30 Jan 2012 21:48:09 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 2 Minute Posture Challenge http://www.attractology.com/2009/03/2-minute-posture-challenge/ http://www.attractology.com/2009/03/2-minute-posture-challenge/#comments Fri, 20 Mar 2009 06:50:08 +0000 Attractology http://www.attractology.com/?p=917 kundaliniConfident posture is often overlooked but extremely important.  Why is it important? Whether people are conscious of it or not in any social gathering they are constantly looking for clues (verbal and non-verbal) to analyze others around them. Walk into a restaurant or bar and it’s only natural to scan the room and see who is there and what they’re doing. We make judgements on people long before we even talk to them, it’s just how it works.

I think of my posture and how I hold myself physically as my ability to positively influence the people around me that are scanning the room. Watch the posture of celebrities or political figures with status and they all have good posture. Good posture means standing straight, tall, shoulders upright and aligned, head up looking straight ahead and the result is a confident, comfortable feel. Good posture does not involve flexing, strutting or having to be a tough guy.

SO, here’s my 2 Minute Posture Challenge

I challenge you to self-check your posture EVERY 2 minutes for half an hour the next time you go out. Posture is such an easy thing to do and then forget about because it requires consistent attention until it becomes habitual and I’ve found the most effective way to improve posture is by repetition. Here are some tips to keep in mind when self-checking:

Standing

  1. Keep feet slightly apart, about shoulder-width.
  2. Let arms hang naturally down the sides of the body.
  3. Be sure the head is square on top of the neck and spine, not pushed out forward
  4. Stand straight and tall, with shoulders upright.

Walking

  1. Keep the head up and eyes looking straight ahead. Avoid pushing your head forward.
  2. Keep shoulders properly aligned with the rest of the body.
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