What’s up guys!  So I was listening to some of Eben Pagan’s audio tapes this weekend and he brought up this really great point of creating some

form of content every single day.  So what I’ve decided to do is to do a little blog every morning.  This will be all free writing with an occasional edit as my ADD addled brain can get off on some pretty crazy  tangents but here goes.  Lately, I can’t help but feel there is one thing that separates the wheat from the chaff when it comes to success with women, money, and overall  abundance.

This one thing isn’t hard to do. In fact, it’s relatively easy but for a lot of us, we can’t do it!  What is it you ask?  Taking some form of action.  Putting your feet in motion and doing what it is you most you fear.  You see that sexy blonde walking into Starbucks and really you only have two options;  you can recede to the editorial in your head and say “I should go talk to her”  or before you get a chance to think about the possible outcomes, you open your mouth and say “hello.”  Now, how many times have you taken the latter route?  How many times have you seen something or someone that made you want to take action but you receded to your mind instead?  I know I’ve done it more than a few times.  Hell, I even still do it now and again.

The power of your mind can dicate what you do and do not do! The good news is, there’s always an opportunity to take action every single day.  You aren’t an eternal wussy.  You aren’t any (insert self defeating noun). Those are only words your ego’s used to identify with.  But they they sure as hell are not you. More so, you’re a product of habit. Your thinking, behavior, success and non-success is purely driven by the subtle day to day habits you engage in. That’s brilliant news.  Because that means the more you approach women, the easier it will be to approach women.

The more you’re able to show a woman who you really are without putting on a self-censored, superficial cool, the more natural it will become to create an emotional connection. It’s all habit.  Not a genetic trait.  Not something you are eternally bound by or not.  So, that being said, I’ve got one task for you today.  I want you to approach at least three people today and simpy start a conversation with “hello.”  If that’s all you say, that’s fine.  But start today building the habit of action.  Tomorrow, we’ll deal with that then!  Until next time,

Cheers to the good life!

 

Question: Hey Briddick ,first off  thanks for your great advice. I called her and set up the first date in a cafe. Now to my questions: what

should I do to keep this spark sizzling as far as the first date is concerned? In other words, what would be the best plan for the first date?

Answer:  The first date is going to be the ice breaker.  It’s where you both get to feel one another out. My suggestion is this
1) Don’t put any expectations on the outcome.  It can be easy to play out in your head the date going a certain way and if it doesn’t, you could get discouraged and thrown off.  That being said, make a promise to yourself that no matter how she acts you’re going to have fun.  This is so important.  Woman want a guy who’s FUN! And also, if she throws a curveball (which probably won’t happen)  you’ll be ready and be able to adapt accordingly.

2) Don’t try to impress her.  She’s already agreed to go on a date with you which means she already has some initial interest in you.  A lot of men try too hard to say the right things.  Just be yourself and don’t worry if you say something uncool or goofy. Your natural uninhibited self is your best self

3)Have a couple of stories you can relate to and talk about. What do you like to do?  What interesting things can you talk about in your life.  If often quiet and tend to run out of things to say with people spend a half hour before the date just talking out loud.  Read a book. Sing a song.  Get out of your head and become comfortable articulating your thoughts and speaking about your life.

4) Ask interesting questions.  As it’s a first date you’re probably going to get the run of the mill (what do you do?  where are you from?) interview type questions.  It’s inevitable. But try mixing it up as well and dig deeper by asking “how did it make you feel when….)  or what was it like when X? Good questions can open the conversation flood gates and allow to really get to KNOW someone.

5) Listen to her.  Don’t just pretend to listen.  Actually hear what she has to say, understand where’s coming from and try to feel what she feels when she’s speaking.  Empathy allows you to connect with another person on a very intimate leve.  From her listening ask relevant questions (ie omg what was the like? Was it hard for you when you ____) etc

6) Make good eye contact.  The window to the soul is in the eyes.  When speaking and listening don’t be afraid to hold her gaze just a little bit longer than normal. Believe it or not,  attraction alone can be generated from making the right kind of eye contact.

7) Dress to impress.  Don’t wear something you wouldn’t normally wear.  But sport your finest threads.  All the little things make a difference.  This also includes grooming- shower, floss, teeth, hair, etc.  You want to take care of everything that is in your control and how you look is 100% in your hands.

Cheers,

Briddick

So I was recently asked the question on how to properly receive a kiss without being overwhelmed with the other persons wandering tongue.  She said: Whenever I kiss someone, somehow I always end up with their tongue in my mouth, even if that’s not what I had originally thought was going to happen. They never force it in, which makes me think that I’ve been just going in and opening my mouth for them without even realizing it, even for a first kiss. I’d like to try having a kiss without the tongue, especially for a first kiss, and make things a little more sensual and a little less slobbery.

This young woman is one of several women who have been victims of what I call a “mouth raping.”  She poses an important question regarding kissing, and that is: how much, is too much… tongue? And more importantly, how do I avoid it?  More men and women are skipping the foreplay and getting right to business and I mean this both literally and figuratively; we live in a society that breeds instant gratification and neglects one of the most fundamental areas of sexual chemistry and connection: and that is patience.  When the sexual tension builds, and builds, and builds until you both find yourself giving into the moment and going in for the kiss with all guns blazing you leave yourself wide open for a full blown tongue molestation.  So how do you avoid it?

Before you go in for the smooch, you can pop on Lionel Richie’s  ’Don’t You Ever Go Away’  or you can read the following:

Speed

When you feel like this kind of passion is boiling up, when the tea kettle is starting to scream, then SLOW DOWN.  Take the energy between you and make it a romantic energy.  If you can go in for the kiss slow, gentle, and controlled then the kiss is more likely to be similar.  A great way to do this is to stare into his/her eyes for a few seconds, put one of your hands on the back of their neck, and take a few more seconds and drag this sexual tension out.  (This is what I call the DRAG OUT PHASE).  You let them know that you want to kiss them (you can do this by looking at their lips) but you also let them know that it’s going to happen on your time.  This is where you can really set the tone and let them know that you are in CONTROL.  Because when they do go in for the kiss, you can do what I call the BACK OFF PHASE.  This is when you get so close to kissing them that there is no room for words between each of your lips; you linger here at this distance for a moment.  The distance is key here, because it’s close enough to where they know you’re thinking about kissing them but you’re not, and that’s when you BACK OFF playfully with a smile.  You can do this a few times, each time, slowing it down even more!  It makes that passionate sexual energy (physical attraction) transform into a deeper connection (emotional attraction): one where comfort is developed through respecting your control and your ability to be playful and intimate at the same time.  By the time you kiss, their following your lead and loving every second of it.

In life, everything is that much better when we have to work for it.  So why not make the first kiss something that they have to work for!

Tenderness

Every good kiss has a feeling behind it.  Whether that’s a sexually driven one, a kind one, a sad one, a passionate one, or a tender one, a great kiss should make you feel differently after having done it.  Often time I’ll hear various philosophies about how a kiss can elevate you and your partner’s energies to another realm; regardless, we can come to an agreement that a great kiss is one that leaves you feeling connected to your partner on more than just a physical mouth to mouth level.

Our intent certainly plays itself out in the way that we kiss.  So, if you want to reach those higher realms, to create a connection beyond the physical, then it’s important to embody a TENDER feeling behind your kiss.  This means that you allow yourself to become vulnerable to the moment that the two of you are in, to trust it, and feel comfort that they’re going to kiss you in the same way that you’re kissing them.  If you can embody TENDERNESS then it’s truly a fascinating thing how powerfully and naturally receptive your partner will be to this energy.  Good kissers, will pick up on it and reciprocate it, and connect with you on that superior level.

If you’re familiar with Richie’s music then you would know that he said these words three stanzas down:

“Kiss, when it’s SLOW with TENDERNESS…”

Either Lionel Richie has kissed some ‘mouth rapists’ or he’s just way ahead of the kissing game, either way, if you’re tongue happy or keep getting tongue happy partners, then I hope you enjoy our advice.  Go out and kiss to your hearts desire!

To Your Success,

Mason

Well guys, it’s been months in the making and I can finally say the fruits of our labor have paid off aka WE’VE FINISHED and released Foundations.  This is so incredible. You have no idea what this means to me.  Especially after spending thousands of hours working on this thing, I can finally say YES, it’s done.

The interesting thing is, I didn’t write this book for other people.  I wrote it for myself as an expression of what I’ve learned and gone through over the last few years.  I know guys are going to read this thing and go WOW, this is incredible, not because I’m showing them something they’ve never dealt with but rather because it explains thed WHY!  Why do some guys have a great deal of success with women while others do not? Why do women flock to men who are ALREADY surrounded by women?  Why and how do our thoughts determine real life outcomes?  These are all questions, I’ve pondered and can thankfully say UNDERSTAND and have HARNESSED.

But more importantly, and this is something you’ll learn if you haven’t already is that nothing is as powerful as giving value.   Our net worth is never determined by what we have but by what we can give.  And this is true in everything in life including attraction, relationships, finance, etc.  Though we’re charging for this book, I know the value exceeds the price ten fold.  We’re talking about some life changing ideas here!  Anyhow, check out the book.  Read a free chapter here.  If you enjoy it, then I guarentee you’ll like the book.

Cheers to the good life,

Briddick