Simple 4 Day Approach Exercise |
Learn to move past your fear of approach. You will only get better with practice.
APPROACH TRAINING (Day) 1 Start a conversation with 3 random strangers today. Be as friendly as possible. Don’t put any pressure on these interactions. Just be a friendly, non threatening guy.
APPROACH TRAINING (Day) 2 Start a conversation with 5 random strangers today. Be as friendly as possible. Don’t put any pressure on these interactions. Just be a friendly, non threatening guy.
APPROACH TRAINING (Day) 3 Go out to places where women work such as department stores, grocery stores, coffee shops, malls, restaurants etc . Pick 2 canned indirect openers and practice on these hired guns. Use each opener 5 times.
APPROACH TRAINING (Day) 4 Go out to places where women work such as department stores, grocery stores, coffee shops, malls, restaurants etc . Pick 2 canned indirect openers and practice on these hired guns. Use each opener 5 times. This time add Passive Put Downs (negs, pebbles etc). Make a note of the different reactions you get.
When you approach a women and she or they reject you, it is important to understand they are not rejecting you as a person, they are merely rejecting your approach.
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