Most guys are happy to get a kiss, how boring.

1. Make her give you different kinds of kisses. 

If I’m kissing a girl I’ll generally say “kiss me” and they generally always move in and kiss you. Then I’ll tell them to give me different kinds of kisses “kiss me softly” “kiss me passionately” “kiss me rough” and if I meet a girl in a club I’ll say “kiss me with your lips, no tongue, softly, I want to see how softly you can kiss” 

I then almost judge her kisses like I’m at a wine tasting event. With a “hmmm, not bad, bit rough on the start and a smooth finish” like a review of her kiss out loud. 

2. Use a kiss as a qualification close

If I have to leave a girl in a club often before I get her number I’ll say “now you need to kiss me because I’m thinking of seeing you again and I don’t see the point if you are a bad kisser, so c’mon give me your best effort, kiss me” then “not bad I might take your number now”

It’s fairly cocky I must say, you are telling her that you are going to make a decision on seeing her again based on the quality of her kiss. Most guys are trying to convince the girl to kiss them, and I’m telling her to prove her worth and earn the right for me to want to see her again.

3. Learn to kiss in many different ways.

I’ve probably got an unlimited amount of kisses I kiss girls. If I had to name, here they are:

• Super soft – barely touching her lips
• Touching her lips with my fingers next to my lips whilst kissing
• Letting her nibble my bottom lip
• Rough passionate whilst scratching her neck
• Tickling tongues with her softly end on end
• Kissing then withdrawing and moaning really quietly
• Kissing then withdrawing and breathing strongly in her ear
• Biting her top or bottom lip gently
• Mint lolly kisses
• Pulling her hair from behind so her head pulls back and her vision goes up whilst having her lip in my mouth so that she’s being almost tug-o-war’ed between her bottom lip and hair
• Ice exchange kisses
• 5% kisses, touching but not really actually touching and every time she goes to engage I pull back whilst keeping contact, it’s the ultimate form of teasing
• Kissing her neck, whilst playing with her ear lobes and pulling her hair gently
• Going 90% of the way to kiss and stopping and thinking deeply, making her confused about what you are going to do, breathing through your nose and biting your lip a little bit, like you are nervously excited and pondering whether to hold yourself back
• Mixed signals – kissing passionately whilst pulling her away from you