Use rapport building questions during an interaction to build trust and comfort. Building trust and comfort is essential, connecting with her on an emotional level is a required step in attraction. I urge you to understand why this is so important and how to these questions effectively, simply repeating these questions is not enough. There is no such magical rapport building questions, but there are some that are better than others. Your goal is to have an enjoyable time engaging in conversation with a woman while demonstrating attractive qualities.

If you find yourself continually asking generic, mind-numbing, “what do you do for work?” type questions, STOP. Your mind set is to be interesting and unique, while building her trust. Ask question s that will allow her to display her personality and LISTEN TO AND REMEMBER HER RESPONSES. When she is telling you about herself, she is investing time getting to know you. This is the building block of creating a connection. As she shares herself with you, you are listening and responding and being genuinly interested . Done right, you will establish an amazing connection.

A Few Trust and Comfort Questions

Suggestion: Know the answer to your question because it is likely she will ask you back. Enjoy the conversation!! Use this reponse to tell a short story to demostate value and share yourself.

• What’s your least favorite word?
• If you had to be named after one of the 50 states, which would it be?
• Who’s your favorite Care Bear?
• Would you state you were guilty of a crime you didn’t commit to free a loved one?
• Where is your favorite place to sleep?  Where is the strangest place you’ve ever slept?
• At the beginning of a relationship, do you trust your new partner unless there is something specific to make you do otherwise, or do you withhold your trust until he or she has earned it?
• If you ran a hospital, what policy would you set for dealing with emergency patients who arrive without health insurance or money?
• Who do you think is the most beautiful person alive today?

Ask, listen and respond.