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Attraction Building Routines

Attraction Building

Here are some attraction building routines that allow you to be different than any other guy that approaches her. These should always be fun. Attitude, humor, kino touch, and listening skills – among other things – will all play a role in how these routines are received. Practice and learn from your mistakes.

 

Best Friends Test

You guys are all good friends aren’t you? Have you guys ever tried the best friends test? Omg here lets play. Ok…here give me your hands (take a hand from each girl finger linked) and both look at me. Ok. you guys are best friends because you guys use the same kind of shampoo. (end hand kino, wait for reaction)

The girls generally look at each other and say no.  Sometimes they don’t look and say no.  If they look at each other, you can say:

See the actual question was more a distraction, the real test was to see if you guyes would look at each other and you did. You were able to sub communicate just by looking her in the eyes. Girls who aren’t in sync or don’t know each other well won’t need to look to know they don’t use the same shampoo

If they don’t look at each other, you can say:

The real test was to see if you guys would look at each other and you didn‘t. You were able to sub communicate without even looking at each other. If you guys weren’t good friends you would generally look at e to verify that you don’t use the same shampoo. 

Female Body Language

Have you guys ever noticed how girls can pick up on other girls’ body language from just a glance but guys can never pick up on it. Like glaring. Guys don’t even know what a glare looks like. Does it look like this?(make goofy stare) Let me see some of you’re guys’ best glares. Ohmgod that was weak? You make a bad bitch

Fun Girl Future Projection

This is short and sweet. A fun future projection with some hand holding.

Omg, you are such a fun girl. But you know what, this just isn’t going to work. We’ll talk and totally hit it off. And knowing my funness, paired up with your funness, will like create this super vortex of fun power. And we’ll be able to go around dancing (start dancing hand in hand kino) like this and bring fun to wherever we go. And I’ll totally show you up on the dance floor. And we just can’t have that because I don’t want to hurt your feelings.

Sugar Momma Future Projection

I’ll tell you what, you can be my sugar momma (Looking at her) and you can can be my mistress (Looking at her friend). You can buy me a Porsche and spoil me. Just before you go to work, you can cook me breakfast and when I finally get up for the day, I’ll take your credit card out to the mall and go shopping, maybe go do some jazzercize. And after I’ve maxed out your credit card buying expensive shoes and clothes I’ll call you and be like “babe….I need another credit card.” And you say “fine but this is the last time”.

But because I’m such a loving person, you know what I’ll do for you… I’ll make dinner once a week for us… and if your lucky I’ll tivo your shows but don’t push your luck.

Thought suppression

Our minds are so powerful. Have you ever heard of thought suppression? No?

Well it’s the idea that our minds have a hard time taking suggestions and commands and will often do the exact opposite of what we tell it to do.

Like for instance right now… DON’T think about a red polar bear. You see, when I said that you couldn’t help but think just for just a split second what a red polar bear would look like. Now you see that big fat guy over there… DON’T PICTURE HIM NAKED. :) You perv! You need some help. I can’t be hanging out with a girl who pictures fat guys naked all the time. That’s just gross.

Social Leveraging

This is a great bit from Mystery that uses the fact that there are women around you to make them realize how important you really are. Use this gambit when surrounded by women in a club and you’ll find you‘ve just transformed into Brad Pitt

I’ll bet you guys think you can pickup any guy in here. But honestly I think that women can only pick up men who have already tried to pick them up first. You know like the lovable loser. The guy who says “Hi, can I buy you a drink.” You know. But really you want a guy who you don’t have to approach. You want a guy who is surrounded by other women. Right now, there are women in this room who are wanting to meet me. Look for your self. But they can’t meet me because they would have to get through all of you. And to be quite honest, I don’t have to go meet them because you guys are entertaining me just fine. But still, appreciate your time with me. 

A Couple Jokes

  1. Did you know that 93% of girls masturbate in the shower? Yea and the other 7% they sing. Do you guys know what they sing? No? well you must be the 93% that masturbate.
  2. Did you know that they have created a food that makes women not want to have sex. Yea there was a huge study in the Womens’ journal. It turns out it was wedding cake!

Synesthesia

I can’t remember where this gambit came from but it has been around in the community for a while and is one of the most field tested and powerful routines out there. Because it utilizes NLP and kino, it is recommended to perform this routine as slow and non-sexually as possible.

You Have you ever heard of synesthesia?
Her No
You (acting excited): are you serious? Omg I need to show this amazing psychology experiment. Here lets go sit down for a second
Her Ok
Her I’m going to rub your arm real quick and I want you to remember specifically how it feels
You Ok (So I rub the insensitive outside ‘hair side’ of her forearm arm very smoothly for about 3 seconds and then stop) Remember how that felt.
Her Ok
You Alright now I want you to close your eyes and picture a time in your life where time standed still. Where you felt the most fulfilling pleasure you have ever experienced. Where everything in your life was just perfect… See what you saw… Hear what heard. .. Feel what you felt… Now when you feel like you are fully in that moment, wiggle your index finger (She does so and then eventually wiggles).            Now I want to see these feelings as an energy source running through your body. Give these feelings an energy color. It doesn’t matter what the color is Now I want you to double the intensity and the double the brightness. Double the intensity and double the brightness! Now I want you to picture that energy slowly moving towards your right shoulder. Picture it moving down your right arm. Picture it moving all the way into your right hand intensifying as it compacts into the smaller area. Now picture all of that pleasurable energy moving into your right index finger. Picture it all collecting in in tip of your finger. Now as I touch your finger picture all of that energy and feelings transfer from the tip of your index finger to mine. (I touch her index finger with mine and act as if there is real energy passing between us.)            

Now you will see that when I touch my index finger on your arm now, it will act as a paintbrush of all that energy and those feelings. (This time I stroke the sensitive, hairless, part of her arm. I then stroke her face and neckline. They are often amazed/turned on).

You see, your mind has incredible control over the physical feeling in your body. I could show you more, but I don’t think you could afford me (I say jokingly).

Roman Soul gaze

There are many variations to this bit. This is an extremely powerful routine that incorporates eye contact, kino and deep rapport building. Use this with caution, it is very powerful.

You We’re going to try something. I just learned this, some say it’s extremely powerful but I just learned it so we’ll give it our best. Native Americans used to believe that the left eye was the window to the soul. Here, give me your hands.
Her (she takes your hands down low)
You Ok, while looking directly into my left eye we are first going to sync our breathing. So breath in (Take a moment to do this.). Breathe out. Ok, so still looking into my left eye focus on your periphery. (Take a moment to let her do this). Ok now, I want you to picture a spot about a foot behind my head (Let her do this)                         


Ok so you are focusing on your periphery, that spot, and looking into my eye. So you have all these things to focus on. But in looking into my eye you might start to see an older… yet still beautiful me. You also might see my power animal, like a totem. I know it sounds weird but many people have had powerful experiences doing this.

Be slow and confident during this whole delivery, give her a moment to let her do this. Gauge her response for how long to draw this out, or cut it short. If you are repeatedly having problems, assess your delivery.

Disabled Mouse Race

(You need a pen)

You “Have you heard of the mouse race?”
Her “No…”
You “There were three messed up mice. They were all cowering in their little hole in the wall and wanted to race each other to get to the cheese that the mistress had left out. Not all of them make it.” (pick up her arm palm up, whip out a pen) “There is their hole.” (make a dot at the bottom of her forearm) “There is the cheese.” (point to a ring or knuckle) “Tell me when to stop. The first one was blind, and he goes…” (draw a line from the bottom of her forearm up to her wrist)
Her “Stop!” (stop right away)
You “…that far. He hit his head on the couch.”
Her “Aw…”
You “The second one had a broken leg. Tell me when to stop. He goes…” (draw a line next to the other one)
Her “Stop!” (stop right away)
You “…that far. His leg fell off.”
Her “Oh no! That’s terrible.”
You “They sowed it back on later. Mice are good stitchers.”
Her “Haha, ok…”
You “Anyhow, the last one was deaf. Tell me when to stop. He goes…”
Her “Stop! … STOP! STOP! STOP! STOP!” (draw a line next to the others all the way to the cheese)
You “He’s deaf. He can’t hear you.”
Her “Oh my God. You are terrible.”
You “You liked it. Try it on your friends some time.”

3 question cold read

You Have you ever heard of the 3 question game.
Her No. what is that?
You It’s a fun psych game that is supposed to tell you about yourself. Here let’s play. Ok, you ready?
Her Yea
You What is you favorite animal? And what are the characteristics that you like in this animal?
Her … (answer) it’s characteristics are (answer)
You Awesome ok the second question is how would you feel if you were in a room filled with water but you are able to breath freely underwater?
Her … (she answers)
You Very cool, ok the last question is how would you feel in a room with no doors, or windows, and white walls, and you were locked up in that room for a indefinite time?
Her .. (remember her answers)

The Explanation

#1 The animal someone favors tells something about her character. The characteristics she likes in the animal are the same characteristics she likes in herself!
#2 The answer on the second question tells something about how someone feels during sexual intercourse
#3 The answer on the third question tells something abouw ones attitude and feelings about death or dying

Space future projection (By Mehow)

You guys are totally fun … you know what I would do with you guys … I would dress you up … 1965 Barbarella style … in vinyl … both of you would have the same cut … but you, since you are the bad one … you would get a black outfit … and you since you are … the total angel … would get the white one … and then I would give you guys ray guns … like you know, those ones you can zap little green aliens with … and I would take you in my … spaceship … and we would go … all over the galaxy together … and have amazing space adventures! … and when you came back down to this bar, right here on earth … all your friends would be completely jealous … because you guys would be my … intergalactic space princesses” (big group hug).