You go by Cajun, how did you get this name?

I’m Acadian, which is mispronounced as “Cajun” in the states. I made a documentary about my heritage and the story of my people in film school and it went to a number of festivals so everyone started calling me “That Cajun guy” in school. That eventually got dropped to simply “Cajun”

What did your life used to look like in terms of meeting women and how has that changed?

I used to be the guy that really didn’t have a clue with women. I was funny, and popular with the guys, so I had that going for me, but as soon as I got alone with a girl I simply didn’t know what to do. I remember I used to date about one girl I liked a year, that’s just date, not necessarily sleep with. This was unacceptable, so I decided to figure out why I wasn’t successful at this and fix it.

Currently I am very happy with my situation. I have a very large social circle full of beautiful women, I have lovely women whom I adore in just about every major city in the world, and if I ever meet a women who intrigues me in the course of my everyday life I have the skills to attract her, if I choose. Lately, my goal has shifted from me, to the students. Now all I care about is helping guys reach the same success that I have, that’s the only thing I focus on in my teaching and on my blog (creatively called Cajun’s Blog)

Could you tell us a little bit about how you came to be an instructor at Love Systems?

Sure, like a lot of guys I read “The Game” and was completely blown away. The whole time I was reading it I was thinking “What the fuck!? these guys are using LINES and getting beautiful women!? I would be amazing at this!” I was an actor at the time and was convinced that if all you had to do to attract a woman was rehearse some scripted routines, then I would be amazing at it. I started going out and practicing all the time, and in the process I eventually met another lovesystems instructor Tenmagnet at a bar I frequented. He was impressed with my skills, and convinced me to come to a seminar a few weeks later. I went and managed to impress him enough to invite me to another seminar to help out. After helping out a couple times I eventually became an instructor. Keep in mind I had about 8 months of going out 4 nights a week practicing before I attended a seminar, so I was already quite experienced by the time I met Tenmagnet.

What do you love most about your job?

Being at Love Systems (or Mystery Method Corp as it used to be known) is most rewarding in terms of helping guys – that’s what I love most, but if you want the fun answer it would be traveling and meeting people. It’s amazing, I’m only 25 years old but in terms of my social intelligence I’m probably closer to 40. Working in bars and meeting people of all ages all over the world does that to you, gives you a better perspective about what being human is.

Oh yeah and I like meeting women too.

If someone were to take a boot camp from you, what unique element or strength would you bring to the table?

I will make your life better, guaranteed (I said that in a thick Cajun accent). Seriously though, from a  Love Systems bootcamp I think that success with women is one of the lesser things you would gain after taking a boot camp. I strive to teach guys how to take control of their lives and make improvements to themselves on a very deep inner level. It’s not just about learning the lines that women love to hear (Although we throw that in too), it’s about transforming yourself into the guy that women love to meet. This has far reaching consequences beyond “success with women” as it can drastically improve your life in all areas.

As an instructor, what are your students biggest challenges that prevent them meeting and attracting women?

Self confidence can be a big issue and something that I like to focus on, but a more honest answer would be simply going out and becoming the social guy. The two kind of go hand in hand in that guys who are already self confident have no issues with going out and being the guy that works the room, but for those that don’t have that self confidence (which is the majority) simply going out and talking to women can be a real issue. Our boot camps are so effective at fixing these issues because we actually go out with our students and help them work through all the problems that can occur in the process of meeting someone.

What’s the first step a guy can take to be better with women?

Committing yourself to getting better would be the first step. Committing yourself doesn’t just mean telling yourself you want to get better, its accepting that, just like anything else, being good with women is a skill that takes practice. There’s going to be a lot of failures on that path, and reminding yourself that its all part of the process and that even failures are opportunities in themselves is what’s going to keep you going forward and not fall trap to the pitfalls of social humiliation.

How important is confidence and what does it mean to you?

Confidence is the single most important trait and, to me, is defined as simply being comfortable in any given situation. Think about everything in your life that you’re good at, your job, video games, maybe a sport. Why are you good at these things? It’s because you’ve done them for long enough to have confidence in your ability to perform them. This confidence comes from repetition, it comes from knowing the outcomes of any possible situation that could arise, and how to deal with it. Being good with women is no different, sure it takes a certain amount of social intelligence to handle the most challenging women, but even that can be overcome with practice. I’ve been doing this for a long time, and sometimes I stop and think “Fuck! I’m really good with women!” but then maybe a year goes by and I look back at myself at that time and think “No I wasn’t, NOW I’m really good with women!” This is an ongoing process; you learn more every time you go out. Everyday you should be the best you’ve ever been, and then tomorrow happens, and you get better.

What’s the easiest way to go strike up a conversation with a woman?

Well, one of the worst ways is to walk over thinking “I’m going to pick this girl up!” Understand that women can read into the subtext of what your saying or even thinking pretty easily. A lot of the time rolled eyes or a condescending remark doesn’t come from a bad line, it comes from her realizing you’re not being honest with your intentions and she loses respect for you. So, I think the best way to strike up a conversation with a girl is to be honest and comfortable with what you’re saying. If you’re using a line try to make it mean something to you; picture the scenario happening to a friend or draw on experiences from your life to personalize it. If you can convince yourself that what your saying is real then you will convince her too. Remember that.

Thank you so much Cajun, If someone wanted to take advantage of your services or products, how would they go about doing so?

You can go to www.lovesystems.com to see the schedule for seminars and to inquire about private lessons. There’s also a nice free forum there called the attraction forum. Loads of free advice and articles on there.

Oh and www.cajunsblog.com is my blog