A women of rare beauty comes with the high demand of men who hit on her.  Thus she is approached endlessly by every type of guy offering himself to her.  The woman knows that she cannot sleep with every guy and her high demand provides her with options in what type of mate she should have in her life. After years of being hit on, occasionally being duped by guys who turn out to be douche bags, she has developed a strategy to weed out those “not worthy”.   This sets the stage for what we call the shit test from her.

When she is giving you a shit test, she is challenging your value by asking the questions:

1. Will I break his frame and make him come into my world
2. Will he give up right way or keep pushing 
3. Can I control him with my beauty.

This being said, it is our jobs as attractive men to be able to answer these questions through our body language, tonality and overall frame of mind.  NO, we will not enter your world.  You will enter ours.  No we won’t give up.  We are so confident in our ability it is only a matter of time before you give in.  No we will not bow to your physical appearance or attitude, like every other regular guy.  Understand her frame of mind and then welcome her objections.  There are times you will go up an approach a woman and she will initially act disinterested in you. She will drop hints suggesting you are failing and will try to disrupt your world! This is why it is important to set your frame early.

Make them understand you are not the fragile, weak, submissive guy that always approaches them.  It’s similar with a comedian.  A good comedian will often start a routine by making fun of the audience, which usually singles one or a few people out.   If he didn’t he would be heckled non stop by the audience if one his jokes didn’t land.  By singling out a few, the rest will develop a healthy respect for the comic as well as a healthy fear of being singled out in front of hundreds or thousands of people. The comedian in a way has prepared a way to battle the shit tests of the audience by coming at them first. He is letting people know he is funny and gaining their respect.

So expect the shit test. Welcome it. Smile when it happens knowing that you know how to handle it.