5 Things You Do That’s Steering the Opposite Sex Away

• Ironic facial hair.
• This statement has become huge in the past couple years. From bets, to Mustache March, or simply testing the lengths your facial hair can grow, this is one trend that will get the ladies running… the wrong way. Unless it’s for a good cause (Movember is a great organization and potentially a great conversation starter, just remember to wear something stating your efforts, and keep your stache to the appropriate month)… Shave. Women don’t have the same appreciation for a barbershop mustache like your friends do.
• Statement Tees.
• It may have seemed funny at the time of purchase, but your “FBI: Female Body Inspector” shirt is only telling women that you have a questionable sense of humor and a wandering eye.
  Instead, stick to classic solid tees, cut well to flatter your physique.
• Comfort Gone Wrong.
• There’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel comfortable in your attire. But there are some things that are better saved for home, on the couch, on a lazy Sunday. These items may include (but are not limited to) sweatpants, Crocs, torn tee-shirts and sweatshirts, athletic jerseys, anything that you may consider your lucky ____ (and have subsequently over worn), and clothing with spots or stains.
• Ignoring the details.
• Yes, women will see those white socks you chose to hide under your slacks and oxfords. The small elements that you hoped no one will notice, is sadly something the female gender have a trained eye to see.
• Faded and misfitting clothing.
• Once your blacks begin to look like grey, the reds look like pinks, and the perfectly shaped sweater looks like it belongs to your little sister, it’s time to replace. There’s nothing wrong with getting the most out of your wardrobe investments, but learn to know when to let go.

Your physical appearance is not the only thing that women notice. Have an awareness of what your body language and actions are communicating. Are you making eye contact with the object of your affection (or interest)? Or are you constantly checking Facebook/texts/scores on your phone? Is your body positioned away from the person you’re interested in? Are you ordering drink after drink just to keep something in your hand? Sometimes the things we do out of nervousness or habit to pass the time are speaking louder than our own words.
Women:

• Sour face.
• When I go out anywhere in public, I’m always keeping an eye on how people interact.  I love to observe body language, and social dynamics as a whole.  One thing that I have noticed time after time, is the sour-faced girl.  You know exactly who I’m talking about.  She’s with a group of friends and because she looks like her favorite parakeet just died, she brings down the attractiveness and approachability of the entire group.  Why?  Because as a man, it can be intimidating enough to walk up to a group of girls, let alone, a group that has a gargoyle as a personal man-deterrent.  No one wants to deal with a sour-faced chick, so quit it.  You’re not only hurting yourself, you’re hurting your friends as well.

• Weird makeup.
• One of the advantages of being a gorgeous woman is that you get to enhance your natural beauty with makeup.  However, please make sure that you know what you’re doing.  A little goes a long way, and just the right amount is nothing short of sexy.  Just like you don’t want us to cologne-bomb you, don’t clown-face us.

• Crazy Talk.
• This should be a no-brainer, but as we get older and start to lug around more emotional baggage, it becomes more difficult to avoid what has happened in the past as a conversation topic or really anything too controversial.   Nothing will make a sane person run in the opposite direction faster than questions like “You won’t hurt me will you?”  “How many kids do you want?  I want five.”  “I’m still good friends with all my ex-boyfriends, is that weird?”  or my personal favorite “Do you like cats?”

• The Stalker.
• In this day and age, everyone has a ton of information about them on the internet.  I get that some of you want to be friends on Facebook before you really get the chance to know that dude you just met.  You want some social-proof on a guy before you move forward.  Understandably, you want to make sure he’s not married, have kids, worship Satan, or whatever else you can pick up from an online profile.  Fair enough.  However, if you know what he is doing at all times due to social media, and bring it up in conversation casually like “How was karaoke last Tuesday at ____________, and who were those girls you were with?”  Don’t get hurt when he freaks the f*ck out.

• Sluts.
• Kind of like fast food value meals, they sound better than they really are.  Guys, keep your standards up.  Unless you think you really found love, and we won’t judge you here, try to keep the sluts to a minimum.  Girls won’t respect you because they don’t respect guys that go for girls that don’t respect themselves.   Girls, if you’re just looking for fun, that’s totally fine.  However, if you’re looking for a fulfilling relationship, try to be respectable and keep it classy.  Because there is nothing hotter than a woman who values herself.

Don’t feel bad if you’re guilty of any of these.  No one is perfect and these are just tips to help you along your path to love and a fulfilling relationship.   However, if you are guilty of more than three of these things, please contact us ASAP and we will help you!!!   Thanks for reading.

Tyler & Carina

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