Short Bit on How to Not Run Out of Things to Say with Women (It’s not what you think)

I just found a comment and response between a visitor and Mason that I feel a lot of guys can identify with and benefit from.  Check it.

Visitor writes in response to our interview series…

The system is fuckin genious man, much respect for the whole group and the project. but how can you keep your mind more occupied and constantly add subtance onto what you got already? picking up where u left off? Good Conversations are the most important aspect in relationships but can get really boring after a while once they run through the same routine and same shit but different story. sometimes its difficult to stay unpredictable. but what is the best way to get in touch and grasp on to lead conversations and be more outgoing to build stronger interest within yourself and the crowd? its the conversations and topics of interest that are brought up with confidence in everything else. i just hate when you talk for a few hours and there is nothing else to say anymore. it gets ridiculous when you get into that akward vibe of silence when everything is said and done. how do u keep your mind running and move forward beyond that point when u feel like uve already been though it all? what keeps things interesting besides suprises and new events? the mindset from sunrise to sunset? it never ends. what keeps life from getting boring and unattractive besides new things? it takes its effect on everything else we do. what r u supposed to do when silence takes its toll on your mind over the phone? the ice needs to be broken n i need some desperate help man. no shame at all. 

Mason’s response:

First off, thank you for the compliments to what we’re doing here at attractology.com. You touch on an area that so many people run into. I’ve run into it, my colleagues have run into it, in fact, I would be surprised if anybody that’s joined the dating world has not been bombarded with this same dilemma at least one time.

You’ve come to the right place with your questions. If I’m not mistaken, you want to know how to keep this forward moving momentum without letting it slip/fade away in conversations, and simply in general. I mean, ultimately, and this is the nature of many people’s lives, is that a lot of people are on top one day, and are way down at the bottom the next and they have no answer for this!

You mention conversational momentum; that it seems to fade and become boring and mundane. Mr. Min, there are methods that you can learn to keep a conversation flowing from one subject to the next, there’s something called THREADING conversations (having multiple stories and finding a way to connect them) BUT this is not what I believe you want, at least not as a final goal. I believe that you want to be able to have a conversation move effortlessly, without thought, without worrying about “oh she’s getting bored, I’m getting bored, what should I do now!” and when you hang up the phone or kiss her goodbye, you want to be able to say to yourself, “wow that conversation felt perfect, did that just happen?”

The trick is finding that ATTRACTIVE niche in the lifestyle that you already live, and bringing it out as often as you can! You want to learn how to tap into this ATTRACTIVE ZONE that is completely you.

You can learn routine after routine after routine, and find success with women, but you will not find fluidity in the attraction process, you will not find grace, and most importantly, you will not find what I believe the reason (the holy grail) of what most people join this community to seek, and that is finding natural chemistry with a woman.

Fluidity, grace, and natural chemistry are by-products of living an attractive lifestyle. You won’t run out of things to say, or things to do because your thought process will not be fighting ideas that come to your head, they will simply accept them or let them pass by, and this is something that takes time, effort, and is possible for any person to achieve.

Briddick  is going to either write an article or post a video in the next few weeks on how to tap into what we call the “FLOW STATE” which is a beautiful starting point for learning how to get out of your head, and into the moment!

If you have any more questions, you can email me at mason@attractology.com, and I’m also available for consultation.

~Hope this helps