http://www.attractology.com/2009/03/ayn-rands-perspective-love-attraction/ 'The subject you didn't learn in school' Mon, 30 Jan 2012 13:46:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.attractology.com/2009/03/ayn-rands-perspective-love-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-281 free dating sites Sat, 03 Sep 2011 11:04:00 +0000 http://www.attractology.com/?p=872#comment-281 for me love is simpy loving someone without any condition. When you love some you should accept that person how it is and not that you want to be. for me love is simpy loving someone without any condition. When you love some you should accept that person how it is and not that you want to be.

]]> http://www.attractology.com/2009/03/ayn-rands-perspective-love-attraction/comment-page-1/#comment-122 Johanus Thu, 02 Jul 2009 22:06:02 +0000 http://www.attractology.com/?p=872#comment-122 Ayn Rand certainly has an interesting philosophy. I tend to agree somewhat with the exerpt, "He does not seek to gain his value, he seeks to express it. There is no conflict between the standards of his mind and the desires of his body. But the man who is convinced of his own worthlessness will be drawn to a women he despises-because she will reflect his own secret self, she will release him from that objective reality in which he is a fraud, she will give him a momentary illusion of his own value and a momentary escape from the moral code that damns him." A guy who has low self esteem can express that in a couple of ways - one is to simply not approach women or go after only those who he feels he is worthy of - those who are not really great catches - or to overshoot and only go after the really physically beautiful women in order to compensate for his own lack of esteem. And usually these are the women who are not together emotionally or mentally and play lots of mind-games and have similar issues to those of the man. Conversely a man who really is confident and aware tends to go for women who he not only finds physically attractive (and this may not be a supermodel, but is a variety of phsyical types, depending on the man), but who is truly together emotionally and mentally - the rarest of all women. Ayn Rand certainly has an interesting philosophy. I tend to agree somewhat with the exerpt, “He does not seek to gain his value, he seeks to express it. There is no conflict between the standards of his mind and the desires of his body. But the man who is convinced of his own worthlessness will be drawn to a women he despises-because she will reflect his own secret self, she will release him from that objective reality in which he is a fraud, she will give him a momentary illusion of his own value and a momentary escape from the moral code that damns him.” A guy who has low self esteem can express that in a couple of ways – one is to simply not approach women or go after only those who he feels he is worthy of – those who are not really great catches – or to overshoot and only go after the really physically beautiful women in order to compensate for his own lack of esteem. And usually these are the women who are not together emotionally or mentally and play lots of mind-games and have similar issues to those of the man. Conversely a man who really is confident and aware tends to go for women who he not only finds physically attractive (and this may not be a supermodel, but is a variety of phsyical types, depending on the man), but who is truly together emotionally and mentally – the rarest of all women.

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