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Attractology: The study and practice of becoming your most confident and attractive self. Attractology offers dating, relationship and life coaching with an emphasis on personal development. We are a few dating coaches providing you with the tools to successfully meet, attract and date the person of your dreams. Using an all natural approach we make use of interpersonal psychology, applied philosophy and advanced social dynamics to bring out your best self and build the relationships you deserve.

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Part 1:  How to meet people in a tech world

Part 1: How to meet people in a tech world

More and more the way to meet people is becoming fragmented.  Our time is split between so many things, our phones, our email, our Netflix obsession, etc… Who’s got time to go out and meet people when there are a multitude of ways at our fingertips.  I’m talking about ONLINE DATING BABY!!  Let’s boil down chemistry and compatibility to just a few photos and a quick bio, I mean it’s gotta... [Read more]

Why Hire a Dating Coach? (and how to pick out a good one…)

Why Hire a Dating Coach? (and how to pick out a good one…)

Why a dating coach?  I’m always interested in how people come to the conclusion that they feel the need to seek out a dating coach.  Is it a singular incident that pushes them to pull up Google and type in “dating coach,” or is it a culmination of frustration with the whole process that has finally reached a boiling point after years of struggle..  Either way, it’s a big bold step, and for... [Read more]

5 Things You Do That’s Steering the Opposite Sex Away

5 Things You Do That’s Steering the Opposite Sex Away

We talk a lot about first impressions here at Attractology. There’s no getting around it, a first impression is the physical exterior that makes a statement about who you are (or who you might be) as an individual. Is your exterior telling people what you’re intending to say? Here are five things you may be doing that are sending the wrong signals. Men: Ironic facial hair. This statement has... [Read more]

It’s Not You…. It’s Me.

It’s Not You…. It’s Me.

The bottom line is this: rejection, like confrontation is hard. No one wants to hurt another’s feelings. No one wants to blatantly say, “I’m just not that into you.” We prefer to speak with our actions. (After all, aren’t they louder than words?) Dating is tricky enough as it is… Finding someone you’re attracted to, getting around to expressing interest, sparking friendly banter, scheduling the first date, etc… We forget sometimes that finding a relationship is even harder. It’s hard to find that person you’re willing to continue the song and dance of dating with and invest in something deeper. More often than not, you’re going to strike out. I’m not trying to be harsh here. I’m just setting the stage.... [Read more]

Fun vs. Fulfillment

Fun vs. Fulfillment

We are all searching for something.  For everyone, it’s something different, but I think it can be boiled down to two things: fun and fulfillment.  Let me explain.  We live our lives searching for fun, to have fun times, fun experiences, just creating fun memories.  Stories that will serve us for the rest of our lives.  Anyway, as time goes by, I believe there is a shift in what we really seek... [Read more]

What He Thinks/What She Thinks Series:  Is it OK for a girl to ask a guy out?

What He Thinks/What She Thinks Series: Is it OK for a girl to ask a guy out?

You come here often? Is it OK for Women to Ask Men Out? On a First Date What he’s thinking: (By Tyler) Of course it’s OK for the girl to ask the guy out.  This isn’t the 1950’s.  However, there does need to be a protocol observed by both parties.  Due to the natural wiring of a man, we are certified hunters, and need to be chasing for us to feel like we are being challenged enough.  However,... [Read more]

Romance

Romance

  Looking for a more modern romance?   Friends, after a brief hiatus, Attractology is back full time to provide you with tools and philosophies to help you feel more confident and attractive everyday.  Does that sound good? Also, thank you for being a part of our community, we really appreciate all of you. OK, here is a topic that I’m sure a few of you can appreciate.  Especially... [Read more]

Reducing Flakes: The Art of Seeding

Reducing Flakes: The Art of Seeding

In last weeks article on “When to call a girl and what to say” we briefly touched upon a specific component of conversing and setting up a date called “The Art of Seeding.” This week we will be further exploring the concept with the theory behind it and how it works. Before we begin, it is critical to acknowledge the importance of seeding and how every Social Artist should make it a point... [Read more]