5 Things You Do That’s Steering the Opposite Sex Away

We talk a lot about first impressions here at Attractology. There’s no getting around it, a first impression is the physical exterior that makes a statement about who you are (or who you might be) as an individual. Is your exterior telling people what you’re intending to say? Here are five things you may be doing that are sending the wrong signals. Men: Ironic facial hair. This statement has... [Read more]

It’s Not You…. It’s Me.

The bottom line is this: rejection, like confrontation is hard. No one wants to hurt another’s feelings. No one wants to blatantly say, “I’m just not that into you.” We prefer to speak with our actions. (After all, aren’t they louder than words?) Dating is tricky enough as it is… Finding someone you’re attracted to, getting around to expressing interest, sparking friendly banter, scheduling the first date, etc… We forget sometimes that finding a relationship is even harder. It’s hard to find that person you’re willing to continue the song and dance of dating with and invest in something deeper. More often than not, you’re going to strike out. I’m not trying to be harsh here. I’m just setting the stage.... [Read more]

Fun vs. Fulfillment

We are all searching for something.  For everyone, it’s something different, but I think it can be boiled down to two things: fun and fulfillment.  Let me explain.  We live our lives searching for fun, to have fun times, fun experiences, just creating fun memories.  Stories that will serve us for the rest of our lives.  Anyway, as time goes by, I believe there is a shift in what we really seek... [Read more]

What He Thinks/What She Thinks Series: Is it OK for a girl to ask a guy out?

You come here often? Is it OK for Women to Ask Men Out? On a First Date What he’s thinking: (By Tyler) Of course it’s OK for the girl to ask the guy out.  This isn’t the 1950’s.  However, there does need to be a protocol observed by both parties.  Due to the natural wiring of a man, we are certified hunters, and need to be chasing for us to feel like we are being challenged enough.  However,... [Read more]

Romance

  Looking for a more modern romance?   Friends, after a brief hiatus, Attractology is back full time to provide you with tools and philosophies to help you feel more confident and attractive everyday.  Does that sound good? Also, thank you for being a part of our community, we really appreciate all of you. OK, here is a topic that I’m sure a few of you can appreciate.  Especially... [Read more]

Reducing Flakes: The Art of Seeding

In last weeks article on “When to call a girl and what to say” we briefly touched upon a specific component of conversing and setting up a date called “The Art of Seeding.” This week we will be further exploring the concept with the theory behind it and how it works. Before we begin, it is critical to acknowledge the importance of seeding and how every Social Artist should make it a point... [Read more]

When to Call Her and What to Say

So you’ve gone out to a high class lounge for the evening with a group of good buddies. Midway through the evening you started talking to a beautiful woman and were successfully able to captivate her interest and and then ultimately get her number! All the years spent on learning the fundamentals of attraction are finally paying off and the format you’ve been following is finally clicking! Hooorah! ... [Read more]

How to Expand Your Social Circle

Many times individuals get so immersed into their daily routine of waking up, going to work or school, coming home, watching television and going to bed only to continue that same routine for the next five days that they often start neglecting their social lives and become robots to the daily grind of life. Fortunately for us here at Attractology, we understand the importance of having a social life... [Read more]